The pandemic caused many people to isolate themselves during periods of lockdown and quarantine. Because of these extraordinary circumstances, complete strangers may have isolated together sometimes resulting in a romantic relationship. It may also refer to two people kept apart because of lockdown or because they were in an online relationship but travel restrictions made it difficult or impossible to see each other.
According to Barry Popik, a contributor to the Oxford English Dictionary, the term “isolationship” appeared on March 15, 2020 in a Tweet posted by Nyar Ombeyi, and as a Twitter hashtag posted by Stephen Trumble on March 18, 2020. Popik said the term was not used often enough to appear in Wiktionary or the Oxford English Dictionary. It does appear in the Urban Dictionary which defines the term as:
[a] long- or short-distance relationship between two people kept apart due to shelter-in-place constraints.
Their hot and heavy isolationship was getting weird, the limits of cyber romance coming clear. She lived three blocks away from him, they hadn’t been able to see the other for two weeks, each of them trapped in their apartments.
Monkey’s Dad
During lockdown, content creators Shawntia Key and Kerry Allen decided to make a web series called Isolationship which featured a “relatively-new couple, Lenae and Mitch, [who] have no choice but to learn how to navigate being trapped together. Every day. All day” (Isolationship.tv). The series was uploaded to YouTube during March 2021 and was produced entirely on smartphones.
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Social Media Trends as of September 23, 2022
Facebook #isolationship: 1,700 people are posting about this
Instagram #isolationship: 3,708 posts
TikTok #isolationship: 977,700 views
Google Trends: isolationship first appeared during the week of January 19, 2020 and peaked in March 2020 when most of the world was in lockdown.
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Sources:
Louise. “Coronavirus news dragging you down? Here are some hilarious memes & tweets to help lighten the mood – In an Isolationship” meme. The Honeycombers.com. URL: https://thehoneycombers.com/bali/funny-coronavirus-memes/.
Monkey’s Dad. “Isolationship.” Urban Dictionary. April 9, 2020. URL: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Isolationship.
Popik, Barry. “Isolationship (isolated + relationship).” BarryPopik.com. March 25, 2020. URL: https://www.barrypopik.com/index.php/new_york_city/entry/isolationship.
Shawntia Key and Kerry Allen. “ISOLATIONSHIP.TV” Isolationship.tv. 2022. URL: https://isolationship.tv/#about-us.